When do birthdays stop mattering

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When you ask something like: "mom why did my birthdays become less important to you when i was younger? Its when you know you have them caught up on the fact that they did wrong, you know they know.

THEY know you know and their still trying their damnedest to shift the focus off of themselves by pointing out YOUR flaws instead of owning up to the fact that they may have been in the wrong here or wasnt involved in this aspect of your life as she should have been.

It seems a bit detached to me emotionally and like she refuses to take the blame for any wrong doing on her part during your childhood. Any parent would normally go to whatever lengths they felt they needed to go to that make SURE you were happy on that day, even if it means just having cake and a few family members there and some gifts.

My mother used to call my friends moms and invite them all over to our house when i was younger to MAKE SURE i had a party even if me and that friend were in the middle of not talking to each other at that moment in time.

She could have at least taken you to chucky cheese. We take my 3 year old son to the county fair because it falls during his birthday time of year and tell him this is ALL for his birthday! Your birthdays ARE important because its the day when you came into our lives, and blessed this earth with your soul hunny.

It's not normal to have it like that, and you're right, your mom should be doing that stuff for you. Maybe you should talk to her about it? It's best to talk these things out. But birthdays shouldn't come to an end of enjoyment, even though it does seem to happen over the years. They're all important in my opinion, whether you're turning 16 or But that's just me. Recent popular questions: Want to give advice? Click here to start your own advice column!

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